Relay contact rating and current rating at dc or low frequency ac have almost nothing to do with RF performance.
Published or advertised contact ratings are usually for hot switching into specified load types at low frequencies (or dc) and at fixed voltages. At radio frequencies, things are quite different. At radio frequencies, effects unimportant at dc or 60 Hz come into play.
Skin Effect
Skin effect pushes current to the outer edges or outer surfaces of conductors. While skin effect doesn't have a large effect on the small area actually connecting in relay contacts, it has a large effect on contact bar and wire heating in relays. Current handling of the very flexible woven braid used in relay movable contact wiring is greatly affected by frequency. With the loose, soft, fine-wire weave often used in very flexible relay leads, the safe current carrying capacity of wires can be 20% or less of the dc or low frequency AC rating.
Voltage Rating
Nearly any time a 
component is rated 
for power handling, 
PEAK voltage must be 
considered (not RMS 
voltage). This is 
because voltage 
breakdown RMS is 
used only for 
heating problems or 
power calculations, 
not arcing. 
Relay operating 
voltage with a 1:1 
SWR into 50 ohms 
would be 1.414 times 
the sqrt of (P*R). 
This means the 
operating voltage 
would be 388 volts 
times a safety 
factor. If we wanted 
to handle a 2:1 SWR 
operating voltage 
would be 550 volts. 
With SWR, we must 
multiply the square 
root of the SWR 
times the normal 
matched peak 
voltage. The relay 
must have the result 
as an additional 
safety factor. 
For example:
Power = 1500 watts into 50-ohm system.
Operating voltage = 1.414 times the sqrt (1500*50) = 388 volts peak
388 volts peak 
into a matched load. 
With 2:1 SWR maximum 
voltage = sqrt 2 * 
388 = 550 volts
Current 
Current causes heating, so RMS and time-averaged values of current are required. I = sqrt (P/R). RF current = sqrt (1500/50) = 5.5 amperes
We should also use a time, or short-term averaged current, because the failure is often caused by the accumulation of heat over time. The time interval over which we have to integrate or average current depends on the thermal lag or thermal inertia of the contact path and wiring.
Again we need the same SWR correction and a safety factor. With current we use the same SWR correction method as with voltage.
Contacts can instantly be destroyed, even in a very large relay at low power, if contacts are opened or closed while RF is present. Opening is particularly damaging because a small opening arc will ionize the air surrounding the contacts and create an arc-sustaining plasma. A second effect is standing waves. When a contact is open, the transmission line feeding the contact acts like a transformer. Under the right conditions, because of transmission lines and standing wave effects, voltage at the source can be stepped up dozens of times to extremely high voltages.
Contacts also can be ruined if high power RF is applied and an external voltage surge triggers a very tiny arc. A distant lightning hit several miles away can induce enough voltage into an antenna to cause a relay to arc. The arc ionizes air between contacts, and the resulting plasma lets high power RF follow a new path. The effect is very much like striking an arc with a welding rod. Once started, a peak RF voltage as low as 100 volts can sustain an arc 1/4 inch or more in length. Transmitter RF will sustain the arc until something fails.
Contact Materials
Contrary to some opinions, a larger relay is almost always not better. Larger relay contacts often have less pressure per square inch of mating area, and are often materials designed for hot switching. The ideal contact material would have a gold flash with the smallest contact patch area the steady-state make current allows. At all costs, avoid silver or cad plated contacts, or exceptionally hard contacts. The ideal receive side relay would be designed with bifurcated (split) contacts.
Contact reliability in cold switched, near zero contact current and near zero contact voltage applications, and this is a cold switch application, rapidly decreases as the contact is made larger than the minimum size possible. Reliability also decreases significantly if hard contact materials are used, or if the contact is cadmium or silver plated.
There isn't a 
good way to use dc 
or low frequency AC 
ratings of a relay 
to determine RF 
ratings. Relays 
almost always must 
be tested and 
inspected in a 
working system 
because: 
1.) Closed contact 
wiring and contact 
support bar current capacity is 
reduced. RF causes 
more heating, 
especially in 
any twisted or braided 
wires carrying 
current.  
2.) Hot-switched RF rating is much 
smaller than the 
hot-switched rating at 
low frequencies. Hot-switched failures in 
RF circuits can 
occur at 
surprisingly low 
operating current and 
voltage levels. 
3.) Closed contact 
current carrying is 
usually much more 
than the hot-switch rating, 
and is not often 
published. Manufacturer's 
ratings are normally 
for switching a live 
circuit (hot 
switching) at low 
frequencies. Closed 
contact capacity is 
generally many times 
the published 
switched rating. 
The RF contact 
rating and general 
switching 
performance is very 
much different than 
the dc or low 
frequency ac hot 
switch rating 
manufacturers 
publish. 
Bottom line is we 
have to pick a 
likely choice and 
test the relay to 
see how it actually 
behaves.